Every year, I host a family dinner where everyone is expected to bring a homemade dish to share. It’s a tradition that I cherish, and it brings us all closer together. This year was no exception, except for one thing – my daughter-in-law’s (DIL) decision to bring a store-bought dish.
When she arrived with the store-bought dish, I was taken aback. She justified her actions by saying that she didn’t have the time to cook, unlike me, who is a stay-at-home mom. I chose not to respond, but instead, I decided to make a subtle point.
At the dinner table, I placed disposable plates next to her store-bought dish. I explained that since it wasn’t homemade, I figured she wouldn’t mind using paper plates. I added that I thought it would help her, given her busy schedule. My DIL began to cry, trying to explain herself, but I stood firm.
I told her that it wasn’t about having time, but about making time and showing respect for our family traditions. My son, however, didn’t see it that way. He accused me of disrespecting his wife and demanded that I apologize publicly. I refused, standing by my principles.
It’s been a week since the incident, and I haven’t heard from my son or his wife. I’ve been left wondering if I overreacted. Was I too harsh, or was I simply standing up for what I believe in? One thing is certain – our family dinner will never be the same again.
